Both Rookie and Experienced Mentors will benefit from watching the Mentor Training Videos periodically.  They will continuously enhance your understanding and familiarity with the insights of Ever MORE in Love and refine your practice of the skills you teach.  You can also watch select portions of the videos if you have specific questions about a particular insight or skill.

Mentors for the Engaged

 Thank you for your willingness to share your marriage and yourselves with the engaged so that they may be best prepared to live ever more in love throughout their life together.

You are the key to the engaged couple’s marriage preparation using Ever MORE in Love: Engaged. Without you, there is no credible witness to the sacramental calling nor to the practical effectiveness of the skills and tools you will teach them. Your first responsibility is to live in love yourselves. This web site will provide a portal to resources that can help you grow in love and deepen your appreciation for the significant role you play in the life of the church as a sacramental couple. It will also provide access to program specific resources that will be useful to you as you work with the engaged and mentor them through Ever MORE in Love: Engaged. 

 “Rookie” Mentors:

If you are mentoring for the first time, relax and be yourselves. Your engaged couple is more nervous than you are. You will both grow more in love through this experience.

Your Mentor Trainer (the couple who led you through the Ever MORE  in Love Skills Course), other experienced Mentors, and the EMIL National Office Staff are available to you constantly to help you feel confident about any of the content and the experiential exercises you will facilitate or to assist you in developing examples from your life to illustrate the program content. You have direct access to the authors, Ron and Kathy Feher at 610-640-4105 or kathy@evermoreinlove.org. Do not hesitate to contact any of these resources.

Experienced Mentors:

No matter how many couples you may have mentored, there may be a situation or a question that comes up that would benefit from a discussion with another Mentor or with the program authors, Ron and Kathy Feher. Do not hesitate to contact them at 610-640-4105 or kathy@evermoreinlove.org. In addition, your experience is incredibly valuable in continuing to improve Ever MORE in Love: Engaged. Please, share your insights, experience, and any suggestions for continuing program development.

We are most appreciative of comments that we can quote for publicity purposes or stories about your experience as a Mentor Couple or the experience of the engaged couples you mentor.

Please, join the Mentor Neighborhood of our online Community so that you can interact with other Mentor Couples and gain from their experience as well as share your own.

 Self Taught Mentors:

Couples who are unable to experience Mentor Training with a group lead by an experienced Mentor Trainer may still be certified to Mentor the engaged using Ever MORE in Love: Engaged if they complete the Mentor Training Skills Course using the Video/DVD program of self instruction.

To access the Mentor Training Videos, please contact the National Office at 610-640-4105 or ruth@evermoreinlove.org.

 Once you have completed all 8 sessions, submit the “Request for Self-taught Mentor Certification” (see link below) to the National Office, and we will contact you to discuss program administrative details.

Request for Self-taught Mentor Certification